Bachelorette Party?

My cousin told me and my mom she would be throwing my bachelorette party. I hadn't said anything to remind anyone because I didn't want to seem rude or anything, but with the time coming very quickly I decided to ask mom if she knew anything because of my working a second job now and other things.





She said the cousin forgot about and thought my MOH was throwing it..and I said no she thought my cousin was throwing it.





I had a passion party back in february and 15 people rsvp'd


only four showed up...mom said she thought that was my party and i laughed and told her no it was just something fun because i got a free gift out of it.





I talked to my MOH today and told her I wasn't having a bachelorette party. She asked why and I told her my cousin forgot. She then said "No we'll have one, just talk to some girls and lets see if we can all get together"





Is this my job? If it is that fine, i just want to do whats right. I don't want to seem rude by 'throwing' myself a party.

Bachelorette Party?
hey ches, i would love to throw you one!
Reply:Taryn, you are a sweetie, Have a blast!!!
Reply:My friends made me choose what I wanted to do for my bachelorette party. I told them what I'd prefer (although they knew I was up for pretty much anything), they planned the whole party as I had told them. It was great!!!





Two years ago, my friend got married and planned her bachelorette party to Vegas. And we were all so happy to enjoy the trip with her.
Reply:You don't have to have a bachelorette party, you have had several bridal showers already. If you and a few of your friends want to get together and scarf down pizza and joke, dance, or watch DVD's that would be cool or even go out for a drink or two but it seems to me that all you have done lately is attend parties. I would want a little rest before my wedding to get things done that need to be taken care of. There are always some last minute details you may have forgotten about.
Reply:I see nothing wrong with working with your MOH to plan it, but I don't think you should do it yourself. Half the fun as the bride is wondering what is planned for you. What I had wanted to do was to have an old-fashioned girls only sleepover! Everyone turned in their keys at the door and they get locked up, they bring their pj's and beverage of choice. Just sit around together playing games, watching tear-jerker chick flicks, etc. This way no one is putting out tons of money, no possibility of anyone getting drunk and out of control and a DUI, but a good way for some female bonding, in a safe environment. Instead we went to dinner, a comedy club and a bar in the same complex and one person was the designated driver. It was a lot of fun, but I still wonder if the other idea wouldn't have been as much fun!?
Reply:Traditionally, the MOH throws the bachelorette party. But if she (due to a miscommunication or another reason) has dropped the ball, there's nothing wrong with you planning it. Hey, at least this way, you'll get exactly what you want! If you are still uncomfortable with the idea of throwing it for yourself, you could have your MOH be the official host, while you make the decisions and invitations 'unofficially'.
Reply:Then go out, and do not wait on someone else to throw you a party!!!
Reply:I asked this question yesterday





http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:I think it's ridiculous that you can't rely on your bridal party to plan your bachelorette party; i'm kind of having the same issues with my bridesmaids and MOH.


I don't think you should have to plan your own party, if all else fails, have your mom plan it. You're under enough stress already. I would also tell your MOH and bridesmaids how much this means to you and how you were counting on them to plan it themselves, but seeing that they cannot handle it, you may have to rely on someone else to get it done.


I'm sorry I'm not anymore help, I just feel for you and pray this doesn't happen to me...





Best of luck!
Reply:just be sure to tell them what you want