House party? how can we stop our parents from finding out?

im going to a house party at a friends house, how can i stop my parents from finding out? She lives around 11 miles away from my house but my dad works in the area that she lives in. I've told my parents that im going to stay in my best friends house for the night just to hang out and watch a movie, but in reality im going to a completley different persons house to a party. Im really excited about it, but im also worried coz my mum could find out! she might phone my best friends mum on the night of the party when im supposed 2 be staying at her house, and realise that im not there at all! wat can i do? and please dont say 'dont go coz i reali wana go!O also, the house where the party is gonna be held is absolutly amazing. The house is lovely and we were wonderin how can we stop if from gettin destroyed? Her parents dont know about the party so the house cant get ruined! its got marble floors, leather sofas and flatscreen tvs on the wall and everythin so it CANT get ruined! any tips?

House party? how can we stop our parents from finding out?
Have it at someone elses house !
Reply:It will all end in tears.
Reply:You are a typical selfish bitcch of todays Britain ,


there is a chance that this hous emight get ruined ,and even if they are rich they dont deserve to have thier home wrecked


(if its Gordon browns house go for it )





England is Fuuked
Reply:I did stuff like that when I was a teenager and my parents always found out. And it got me nowhere!! Talk to your parents abou tit.
Reply:i hate to say it but lies breed lies... even if you lie about your whereabouts, it will come out eventually or something will happen which will make you regret telling porkies to your parents.





best option is tell the truth... or at least as much of it as you can without getting busted.





parents aren't that bad you know!
Reply:you shouldnt lie to your parents


if you dont want to be told not to go or to tell the truth you shouldnt have asked on here


I think you are being very irresponsible in going somewhere completely different to where your parents think you are


what if something goes wrong and you need them?


you wont listen to any sensible answers anyway-so just keep safe PLEASE!!
Reply:well the problem already started... theres more than 30 people going you said.





no one is going to be able to control 30 people with nothing gretting ruined.





just try to have everyone a bit calm and dont have people wandering all over the house.. keep then in certain rooms. as for your parents, tell them your friends parents(where you are supposed to be staying) are going out and will be back late but they want them to call when they get home you can have them do that. (most likely, your parents wont expect your friends parents to call them late so they will hopefully trust you)
Reply:i really dont know what to say hun but its not good lieing because u can get in trouble either way and if its in ur friends home how dont the parents know
Reply:Not going on the internet and telling everyone would help-but it looks like its too late for that now.
Reply:BE A MAN!!! Go to the party, trash the house or w/e, get caught, and laugh about it in the end!
Reply:Have some level headed friends available to toss morons out the door if they act up. And let everyone know this up front. Remove any valuable/breakable objects and lock them up. Limit the booze. Use a cell phone to handle your parents. Have fun, but dont drive drunk, the cops are real assholes about that. And have sex with any likeable boys you meet.
Reply:Using a digital camera take lots of photos around the house pre-party. the after the party cross reference the pics with how to tidy the house.


Just the smallest ornement out of place may raise suspicion.





We did this in the days before digital cameras, we used to make sketches where all the ornaments were. Never got caught.





Although to be fair this was the same mum who when she discovered our home made bong we told her it was a science experiment.





Enjoy the party. Never don't go to parties. It's what your youth is for.
Reply:go for it... if they find out at least you would have had a good time... and dont worry about the house getting ruined, they always get ruined when kids have underage drinking and stuff but its not like its your house so who really cares... and your mom will find out but I mean, its like so what you really want to go and thats what really matters...
Reply:Hmm sounds like it could all go bad, if there are 30 people invited there will most likely be drinking which leads to the house getting wrecked, objects broken and getting lost and a fight might break out. Not to mention underage sex and drugs. I wouldn't go.





Sorry I know that's not what you wanted to hear but you know it's true!
Reply:Well, gee, i was a kid once and i might of pulled a prank like that or two. In the first place, don't lie to your parents... just don't tell them the whole truth. Tell them that while over at your friend's place, you might decide to go to a movie or maybe to another friend's place first... That way you take away the need for them to call to spy on you. Then, if you have a cell phone or if not, ask to borrow someone's, call from the party and let them know you're at another friend's house for a little while (you can fill in whatever reason or details you want) and are just calling them to let them know and you'll be going back to your original friend's place. As for the party... hide all the furniture, breakables and valuables in one room or in some place out of the way, preferably if it can be locked. And you shouldn't be drinking if you're not of age, but if anybody needs to puke, get them to a sink, a toilet, or outside. Have fun! Putting partying over your parents is a tradition as old as time. You're not the first. The reason some parents get worried or overprotective is because they did the same thing when they were kids. Some of us, though, don't have a problem with letting our kids be kids AS LONG AS THEY'RE NOT F---IN STUPID ABOUT IT! Stupid is never fun.
Reply:sounds like a recepie for disaster!!!
Reply:I do not know your parents, so cannot say how to hide it from them. As far as keeping the other house clean


1 - NO red Koolaid drinks that can stain things.


2 - literally block entrance to certain rooms that should be off limits - the parents bedroom and master bath is a great start


3 - set things around where the TVs are on the walls so people can't get close enough to bump them


4 - If it can be afforded, get some furniture covers to avoid stains on the sofas


5 - keep people outside as much as possible. Vomiting in the house is difficult to clean


6 - purchase lots of cleaning products ahead of time to prepare for the worst. Have access to a steam cleaner with stain remover to take care of the carpet.


7 - remove all breakables and glass objects and store them someplace else


8 - use all plastic cups, plates, aluminum cans, plastic bottles, paper towels, etc. NO GLASS!


9 - take the garbage elsewhere. Do not leave it out for the trash at the house or even the neighbor houses. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. Take garbage to a dumpster, if at all possible. Parents are smarter than you think.


10 - invite the neighbors, if they are cool, or make sure they will not tell. Neighbors can be difficult and tricky to deal with.


11 - have the party at least 3 - 4 days before the parents are due back, if at all possible. plenty of time to sleep the next day and still clean everything.


12 - Know where to purchase similar bedsheets, towels, etc if they are ruined. Better yet, go purchase some real cheap stuff and not use anything from the parent's house.


13 - have people bring coolers and don't store any of the food or beverages in the parent's refrigerator. If you forget about checking the refrigerator the next day and something is left there.....oops!


14 - No leftovers. People leave with what they brought, including dishes. No extra dishes. Make sure dishwasher is empty before parents get back.


15 - buy plenty of air freshener and give it time to air out of the house before parents return


16 - no smoking in the house of any kind. that smell gets trapped in furniture for months.


17 - if anyone breaks any of the rules for offlimit rooms, glass, smoking - kick them out of the house. What is worse - a pissed off friend for 2 days, or getting caught.


18 - have someone who knows what they are doing DJ the party. Make that person responsible for controling the music, including how loud the speakers go. Having the police come for loud music would be a VERY BAD thing.


19 - make someone responsible for the cars and the keys. no double parking, no cars parked illegally, no one leaves the house without permission.


20 - have numbers for taxi service readily available. move these cars at least 1/2 block from the house so they are not left there the next day for questioning


21 - invite at least one person, no matter how neardy or uncool, that can be responsible enough (the whole no drinking thing) to take care of the driving of the cars when needed. Better yet, invite 2 of them so they can talk to each other and not bother you!


22 - and of course, the disclaimer......no alcohol. I do not want to contribute to the delinquency of anyone underage, so no drinking.......


23 - one thing for the phone calling by your parents.......set up call forwarding on the friend's phone so it goes to your friend's cell phone. the parents can always be busy or out back or downstairs or upstairs or already in bed. Don't forget to take off the call forwarding.