Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Birthday party dillemma....what do I do??

I am a 27 yr old mother of 2. My youngest is turning 2 at the end of the month and we had planned to have her party at my parent's house. They have an excellent backyard venue for a party with plenty of parking. I have the entire party planned, except for purchasing the decorations and I have NOT sent out the invitations yet. My problem is my father. He is aggrivated with me, for an unapparent reason, and I am considering backing out of the picture for a while to let him deal with the personal issues which has led him to "dislike" me at the moment. I feel that if he is angry with me, but cannot communicate his anger, how am I to square away a party for my daughter? Should I book a party elsewhere, or forget his behavior and attitude towards me for the sake of my daughter. He can barely look me in the face, and there are many other circumstances surrounding the issue, none of which involve me specifically. Help!! (I pay my own bills, have my own house, take care of myself!!!)

Birthday party dillemma....what do I do??
Tell him to knock off the shitty attitude as you have no problem with not inviting him to the party. And forget about having the party at your parent's home, have it anywhere else but there.
Reply:Well, your daughter is only two so it is unlikely that she will remember where the party was held. Just plan it elsewhere and make it fun.
Reply:uff! too lengthy question. Who would read it?
Reply:If you have your own house then do the party there, if is too small then invite less people. Your dauther will understand.


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